The Sex Positive Hub
The Sex Ed You Needed Growing Up
Over the years we can learn/hear harmful and damn right wrong views when it comes to sex.
Whether you learned them through mainstream porn, social media or down the pub it's important to learn the correct info to keep safe and experience the best pleasure!
Cliterally The Best is here to debunk those myths and help you get the most out of YOUR body, shame-free!
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The Sex Positive Blog
Here at Cliterally The Best we focus on good vibrations! We believe feeling good should be prioritised and sex education is a human right! Read the latest sex + relationships articles by Evie & guests.
Why Aloe Vera Lube is Great for Menopause: A Natural Solution for Intimate Health
Discover the benefits of aloe vera lube for menopause. Cliterally the Best Water-Based Aloe Lube provides natural hydration, soothes sensitive skin, and enhances comfort during intimacy.
The Alarming Global Rise of Vaginal Tightening & Labiaplasty
Explore the rise of vaginoplasty and labiaplasty, understanding the myths, risks, and reasons behind these procedures. Learn about their growing popularity, medical versus cosmetic purposes, and th...
Putting the ‘Hyper’ in Hypersexual: Reflections of a Late-Diagnosed ADHDe
As a woman who was late-diagnosed with inattentive-type ADHD as an adult, I found that there was a period of enlightenment that followed being handed the label. It felt like a fog had finally lift...
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Share Your Story
Welcome to our free & dedicated space to share your stories and discover those of others, with the aim of breaking the stigma surrounding typically taboo topics.
"I had my first smear test, then received a letter saying that I had HPV" - Mel
I had my first smear test, then a few weeks later received a letter saying that I did have HPV. Upon receiving this I had no prior knowledge to what HPV actually was. I had absolutely no idea how ...
'Some of You Guys Suck at Being Dominant' - Quinn Gray
Domination in bed is something frequently done with poor technique. Spanking, choking, and spitting seem like standard aspects of sex nowadays; I can't remember the last time I had sex and it wasn...
"My First Sex Party" - Emilie, London
I’ve written all about my first big sexual adventure in poetic form. For some reason I find it easier to express myself in rhyming couplets 😂. Shout-out to anyone else who can related to being an a...
"Am I the only one out there who masturbates with my legs crossed?" - Julia, Poland
Am I the only one out there who masturbates with my legs crossed instead of spread?" has been the question I've been asking myself for years. I felt uncomfortable about my method of masturbation. I...
"The idea I could be gay was so alien to me" - Kira, 18
I think discovering your sexuality isn’t restricted to realising you are not cis/straight but also is about realising what turns you on, what you are comfortable with, how to please yourself. So d...
"My Vulvodynia Story" - Lucianna, 21
Hiya, I’m Lucianna, I’m 21 and have struggled with Vulvodynia for as long as I can remember, I properly realised there was something wrong at the start of puberty roughly 12/13. Now I know that mig...
Your Questions, Answered.
My most commonly asked questions - with good reason!
What even is 'sex positivity'?
Good question! I am super conscious of Sex Positivity becoming the next toxic positivity movement.
Where you are told you should be loving your body all the time or you should be constantly working on your self-care.
When really, it can be hard sometimes to even accept your body let alone love it + some days it can be hard to even shower or want to have sex - and this is okay too!
Sex positivity isn't about being this super sexual being (although if that's you that's cool too!), it's about being open to learning and understanding other yours and other people's experiences surrounding sexuality without judgement - this doesn't need to involve anything physical, at all.
I want you to know that although I bang on about sex online ALOT, it doesn't mean you SHOULD be doing these things and if you don't that you're not 'liberated' - it's that, if you do enjoy sex, that's ok and you are deserving of these experiences regardless of who you are!💜
Who is behind Cliterally The Best?
Hey, my names Evie 👋 I run this passion project on my own with the odd guest blog writer. I am qualified in teaching Sex Education with ACET & as of September 2022 I am training to be a psychosexual and relationship therapist with COSRT. You can read my full story here.
I'm a brand and i'd love to work together.
Amazing! I'm always looking to work with like-minded brands. Please email me with what you had in mind and we can chat!
Do you ship outside the UK?
I do indeed! You can find shipping prices here. Sadly since brexit, shipping prices have shot up - but i'm constantly on the look out for cheaper suppliers to send you your sex positive goodies.
I ship directly from my home currently & all orders are dispatched withing 2 working days with tracking numbers.
Where can I watch ethical porn?
You can find a list of my favourite ethical porn sites/platforms and some great discounts here.
Where can I find sex ed resources and courses?
It can often be hard to find inclusive resources for your classroom + courses to further your learning, so I have compiled a list of my favourite RSE (sex ed) resources for school teachers, parents/guardians + sex educators - free & paid.
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Bima
One of the best sex educators I know
Evie is one of the most determined, hard working people I've never met!
Her sex education skills are on point, her knowledge is so vast and she is ethical too, in that she's studied and become qualified in the field of sex education, so you know she's legit. Definitely recommend her products and page!
CM
Cliterally the Best is the best!
Cliterally the Best, and it’s amazing creator, put so much thought and care into their subjects. The carefully articulated and educational explanations on topics and questions asked create such an inclusive environment that anyone is lucky to be a part of!
You feel no judgment or embarrassment, and I’m so happy I’ve found a place where I feel comfortable and understood.
Stephen
Great find ... Great product.
Great response to my query when unsure of my order. Excellent if not orgasmic product! Fab website. Thanks Evie .. xxx
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Cliterally the best lube
I really enjoyed using this lube, my first one from an independent small business.
I found it to be non-sticky and to have a neutral faint aloe vera smell, which was much more pleasant than others by durex that I had previously tried. The only difference I noticed was consistency - this is a lot silkier than the mainstream brand leaders and a little thinner, but not watery.
This is very good lube for sensitive skin, and does not irritate the skin.
The lube was sent very promptly and with some free stickers which were lovely!
