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Why have the UK governement deemed puberty blockers safe for cis kids but not trans kids?
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Why have the UK governement deemed puberty blockers safe for cis kids but not trans kids?

What are puberty blockers? "Puberty blockers have been used for decades in cisgender kids who either are going through puberty too early, or, in some instances, kids who are going through pubert...

PleasureWhat they didn’t teach you about wet dreams

What they didn’t teach you about wet dreams

Most people know about wet dreams, likely they’ve had one themselves but many people don’t know the truth about what they are, who can have them and why they happen.

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Why Aloe Vera Lube is Great for Menopause: A Natural Solution for Intimate Health

Discover the benefits of aloe vera lube for menopause. Cliterally the Best Water-Based Aloe Lube provides natural hydration, soothes sensitive skin, and enhances comfort during intimacy.

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The Alarming Global Rise of Vaginal Tightening & Labiaplasty

Explore the rise of vaginoplasty and labiaplasty, understanding the myths, risks, and reasons behind these procedures. Learn about their growing popularity, medical versus cosmetic purposes, and th...

SexualityPutting the ‘Hyper’ in Hypersexual: Reflections of a Late-Diagnosed ADHDe

Putting the ‘Hyper’ in Hypersexual: Reflections of a Late-Diagnosed ADHDe

As a woman who was late-diagnosed with inattentive-type ADHD as an adult, I found that there was a period of enlightenment that followed being handed the label. It felt like a fog had finally lift...

Sexualitywhat is asexuality

What is Asexuality? A Guide to Understanding Asexuality

Discover the essence of asexuality during Asexuality Awareness Week! This article explores what it means to be asexual, debunks common myths, and highlights the spectrum of experiences within the a...

RelationshipsThe 4 Predictors of a Break-Up and How to Combat Them | Gottman's 4 Horsemen

The 4 Predictors of a Break-Up and How to Combat Them | Gottman's 4 Horsemen

John Gottman, a psychologist, identified the "Four Horsemen"—criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling—as key behaviors that harm relationships. By addressing these patterns, couple...

Feeling Lost at 30? Join The Club Sex Ed with DB

Feeling Lost at 30? Join The Club

I just married the love of my life two months ago. I have a thriving business promoting a mission that I truly believe in. I live in an incredible community that makes me happy and fulfilled. And ...

Sexual HealthSapphic Sexual Health: Essential Tips and Common Myths Debunked

Sapphic Sexual Health: Essential Tips and Common Myths Debunked

Discover essential sexual health tips for sapphic relationships in this inclusive, shame-free guide. Learn about STI prevention, safe use of sex toys, regular testing, and ways to enhance pleasure ...

ContraceptionHow Successful Are Vasectomy Reversals?

How Successful Are Vasectomy Reversals?

Discover how successful vasectomy reversals can be, factors that affect success rates, and what to expect from the procedure. Learn about timing, techniques, and expert advice on restoring fertility.

Don’t Be Silly, Wrap Your Willy | 6 Essential Condom Tips

Don’t Be Silly, Wrap Your Willy | 6 Essential Condom Tips

Discover essential tips for using condoms correctly and safely. Learn why checking expiration dates, using the right lube, and handling condoms carefully matter for effective protection. Plus,...

PleasureKissing Is The Main Character

Kissing Is The Main Character

When I tell you to picture the best first great kiss you’ve ever had, what comes to mind? (Seriously, close your eyes and really think about it…okay now open your eyes to read the below questions a...

PleasureHow to Squirt: The Spider-Man Method

How to Squirt: The Spider-Man Method

Explore the comprehensive guide on squirting, including techniques, tips, and debunked myths. Learn about anatomy, preparation, and the best sex toys and positions for enhancing your experience. En...

Sex 101Condom & protection excuses (debunked) & their comebacks

Condom & protection excuses (debunked) & their comebacks

Some people avoid using condoms, either because they think they don’t need them or they just don’t want to use them. However, condoms are essential as they are the only contraceptive method that pr...

NewsAnimals that have evolved to avoid harassment

Animals that have evolved to avoid harassment

A recent study from the University of Exeter explores how females in various species show their "sexual quality." Typically, males in the animal kingdom flaunt more striking features than femal...

PleasureDid you know? Kelloggs was created to try and stop masturbation?

Did you know? Kelloggs was created to try and stop masturbation?

In the 18th and 19th centuries, folks around the world got pretty worked up about the idea of self-pleasure. While masturbation wasn't exactly smiled upon in Judeo-Christian beliefs, the strict m...

PleasureManaging Sexual Side Effects of Antidepressants: Your Guide to Feeling Like Yourself Again

Managing Sexual Side Effects of Antidepressants: Your Guide to Feeling Like Yourself Again

Discover practical tips for managing sexual side effects of antidepressants in this friendly guide. Learn how to communicate with your healthcare provider, explore lifestyle modificati...

RelationshipsIs is time to go 'no-contact'?

Is is time to go 'no-contact'?

As difficult as it is to cease contact, many people believe that it’s one of the best routes you can take to heal the heartbreak and not prolong the pain. Let's discuss what ‘no contact’ means and...

Sex 101So, You're Looking to Become a 'Unicorn'

So, You're Looking to Become a 'Unicorn'

A 2022 survey into the UK's most common sexual fantasies by sex toy website Sinful found that 18% of respondents envisaged themselves having sex with not just one other person, but two. Scandalous....

PleasureHow Do Our Bodies Become Aroused?

How Do Our Bodies Become Aroused?

It’s safe to say, if you are reading this you will have experienced arousal at some point, but most of us would not be able to explain how this happens in our bodies. In this article I will be disc...

Wet Dreams and why we have them

Wet Dreams and why we have them

Not just for Penises Wet dreams or 'sleep org*sms' are when you ejaculate or secrete vaginal fluids during your sleep - despite what school sex ed taught us any gender can have them! Your genita...

PleasureWhat is a Sex Swing?

Sex Swings: Are they for me?

If you and your partner are looking to mix it up or just try something new, buying a sex swing can be an excellent way to embark on a new adventure or try new positions without spraining something....

PleasureThe Surprising Bond Between Cannabis & Pleasure - by AIMA

The Surprising Bond Between Cannabis & Pleasure - by AIMA

Marijuana has often been painted with a brush of misconception and negativity, primarily due to its legality, which varies around the globe. However, the more we delve into the potential benefits o...

Sex Toysthe benefits of glass sex toys

What are Glass Sex Toys?

If you are looking for a toy that you could also display in your home, glass sex toys might be next for your arsenal.